A Blog for Bisexual Women

Okay, as co-founder of UsBiGirls, I get a lot of questions about "finding a bisexual girl near me" from members. I am truly surprised by some of the expectations of members who live in rural areas, where the population is very low. I'm talking about places with a lot of open land, maybe farm land, or barren desert, where there are not a lot of inhabitants. Why do people expect everything to be at their fingertips? Maybe it's the "microwave mentality" so pervasive in our society. I want it "hot and...

Sexuality runs along a continuum. It is not static, but rather has the potential to change throughout one's lifetime, and varies infinitely among people. We cannot fit our sexuality into nice neat categories that determine who and what we are. Myth: Bisexuality does not really exist: People who consider themselves bisexuals are going though a phase, or are confused or undecided. Ultimately they'll settle down and realize they're either homosexual or heterosexual. Reality: The reality is, some people go through a transitional period of bisexuality on their way to adopting a lesbian/gay...

The very next day after my first night with Magdalene I received an email from Jen, who seemed incredibly excited as it transpired that her schedule had changed and she could fly over as soon as she'd had time to pack a few things. Both Magdalene and I were overjoyed that we were all going to get to meet at last, Magdalene and Jen already friends and lovers, of course. It turned out to be a late flight, and we headed out to pick her up as soon as we got...

Does it take one bi girl to spot another? Not necessarily. I turned up for a bi girl party at a local club that claimed to have a waiver of cover charge for bi girls and lesbians. Unfortunately, the door butch lesbian couldn't scan the bi girl in me and I had to pay my way in. What made it more unfortunate was that 3 other girlfriends whom I'd asked along with me had to pay their way in as well. Needless to say, we never went back to the party again.Another...

So while I am not very sexual awake, at night it is different it seems... Usually the days that I fight with my husband it is more so the case. This night I went to bed feeling totally unloved and horrible because Hubby was upset I didn't want sex, again, and ended up telling me that while he is gone in TX for work I will find someone new...  So with this fuel my brain took small notes of a perfect scene.. and even though I know this is the highlight...

It was the visit I’d been waiting for a long time. My heroine, the erotic actress Magdalene St. Michaels, had become an online friend, and turned out to be as nice a person as she appeared to be, by nature warm and open, as well as scintillatingly sensual in everything she did. I’d been captivated by her years ago, when I first saw her perform with other women. I was taken not only by her looks, but the passion and deeply hot sexuality she seemed to exude. As a repressed (at...

The thing is, I didn't always identify as "bi." For the first 20 or so years of my life, I considered myself straight. Of course, during those years I did little actual considering all around, given that I had a boyfriend for most of the time, and that I was raised in a conservative, Christian environment that did not address alternative lifestyles. I never really had any cause to review my feelings on the matter, nor did I spend much time exploring other options. But when I started dating a woman,...

So I started a new job last year, and it's always interesting finding my niche, learning who my friends will be, and establishing a reputation and balance. I wasn't out in my first few weeks, though I wasn't necessarily not out. I guess I just wasn't itching to make any grand announcements, and I also figured my private life was just that: private. But as I began to spend more time with my co-workers, and as I began to actually befriend my co-workers, it seemed like an obvious step. Besides, it's...

  It was two days since the butler Crabtrees had called me to his quarters and made me orally pleasure him in order to consolidate my position as a chamber maid at Warburton Abbey. I hadn't dared talk about what had happened with Steph, my fellow chamber maid and room mate, in case it somehow spread round the Abbey. I was so grateful to have got the job at last, and even though I had felt cheapened by what Crabtrees made me do in his quarters, it had also excited me...

Bi the Bi: Two Bi Writers on Big Bi Issues This blog post is part of an ongoing conversation between two bisexual activists. A.J. Walkley and Lauren Michelle Kinsey are both monogamous, bisexual, cisgender females who are in long-term relationships. A.J. is in a relationship with a cisgender male, and Lauren is in a relationship with a cisgender female. Both A.J. and Lauren are committed to remaining visible as bisexuals in spite of society's tendency to want to label A.J. as heterosexual and Lauren as a lesbian. Together they came up...